haha, that does sound dumb but no im not even logging in that way. i hit log in on the top right of the page and then the dialog box that pops up i hit the "connect" facebook button and it logs me in. apparently its having trouble keeping me logged in for some reason though. im new here anyway, maybe ill just create an ouyaforum specific account that way i know it'll work and i can add a cookie by checking that box you're talking about.